Is it better to marry young or to wait until you are ready?? What about the 80/20 rule?? What if you meet someone in your 40’s and get married is that good enough time if you both live till you are 80. Is 40 years enough time, what about 60 years. How much time spending with another person is enough time. Is there such a thing as spending too little or too much time with a person. As I was driving home from work, I began to think of all the decisions that I had made in my life and where my life would have been if I had made alternate decisions. Would I have been happier, maybe I would have been married with a few kids or enjoying traveling all around the world. What really would have been my life.